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Post by nebless on Jun 3, 2022 19:47:07 GMT -5
Always a sad situation. Our thoughts are with you.
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Post by youfiend on Jun 3, 2022 19:51:43 GMT -5
I'm sorry you and your family are going through this, Zanshin. Take whatever time you need, we're thinking of you.
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Post by houndle on Jun 3, 2022 23:30:56 GMT -5
Sorry to hear it zanshin , my thoughts are with you.
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Post by ProfGremlin on Jun 4, 2022 8:22:41 GMT -5
Ah, zanshin, I'm sorry you and your missus are facing such a trial. Take care of yourself and your family. Ask for the help you need and take the time for yourself and your loved ones as you need it.
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Post by zanshin on Jun 4, 2022 10:59:36 GMT -5
Thank you all for your kind words. Sue played Tunnels and Trolls when I ran it, and played with the legendary Boozer, darrght and other UK T&T luminaries at the Beer & Pretzels con back in 2012. Great fun was had by all.
She is getting the best of care.
At 12 noon on the 5th June she died peacefully in her sleep. My friends and family are being of enormous support, but I am crushed.
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Post by alkazar on Jun 6, 2022 4:27:58 GMT -5
Oh No! I'm so sorry. You're in my prayers. This is a rough thing to go through I hope you will be OK. Trollzine can wait, you take care of you.
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Post by mahrundl on Jun 6, 2022 6:13:37 GMT -5
zanshin, I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't truly imagine how you must be feeling right now.
There is little that I can offer from the other side of the world, but if there is anything that I can do that would bring even a small amount of comfort, please let me know.
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Post by ProfGremlin on Jun 6, 2022 7:49:42 GMT -5
zanshin, I'm so sorry to hear it. I have no words with which to offer solace save to echo Mahrundl and say that we're here should there be something you need.
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Post by nialldubh on Jun 6, 2022 7:50:51 GMT -5
Zanshin, If there was any words to make this better, but there cannot be...
Nature is cruel and we can only survive in it...
May your soul find peace...
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Post by youfiend on Jun 6, 2022 8:23:24 GMT -5
We're here for you if you need us, Zanshin. I'm so sorry.
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Post by cupboardgnome on Jun 6, 2022 12:11:19 GMT -5
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and family zanshin.
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Post by zanshin on Jun 6, 2022 13:58:55 GMT -5
Thank you all. It is moments like this that prove that our virtual community is a real one.
My friends and family have rallied round in support and I have a date for the legendary Boozer T&T weekend in August. It's great to have things to look forward to.
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Post by apn on Jun 7, 2022 1:22:42 GMT -5
Sorry to read this Zanshin - hard to put together any words that will make you feel any better. Cherish the memories and take the time you need away from everything to grieve. Very sad to hear
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Post by zanshin on Jun 7, 2022 8:26:11 GMT -5
Sorry to read this Zanshin - hard to put together any words that will make you feel any better. Cherish the memories and take the time you need away from everything to grieve. Very sad to hear I keep saying to people - the fact that you are offering words of comfort is enough. There are no magic words that makes it all better, but showing concern really helps - you know you are not facing it alone.
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Post by lurker37 on Jun 7, 2022 12:43:43 GMT -5
So sorry to read of your loss, Zanshin.
My only advice is that grief takes as long as it takes - there is no set time-frame where you are supposed to 'be over it' by, and anyone who says otherwise has never been there. You will get through this, but don't burden yourself with an expectation of 'when'. Don't stop turning to your friends and loved ones for support just because it has been a while.
Disclaimer: All this advice is completely free, so it is, of course, worth exactly what you paid for it.
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